Walter Poole

Walter Poole, aka “Bap” was born on September 28, 1939. His Mom, Rosa had the assistance from family in rearing her first-born. He was raised in part, by his adoring Paternal Grandfather, Henry Poole.  Walter fondly spoke of his childhood and how his Grandfather offered no lack of love and simply spoiled him rotten to the core.  His Uncles were present to offer moral support and assist with ushering him into manhood.

He grew up in the Annapolis area and graduated from Bates High School.  He loved hunting and fishing. Walter suffered no shortage of siblings, seven younger siblings to be exact. Being the eldest of the brood, he often positioned himself as the parental surrogate and disciplinarian.  He loved his sisters and could be protective to a fault.  If he decided a guy was not suitable to date his sister(s), discussion was minimal and the potential perpetrator might need to seek safe shelter. 

Wanting a better life for his family of three children and their Mom Ethel Brooks, Walter decided at a young age, to enlist in the Armed Forces. After serving a double tour of duty in the Vietnam Conflict, he returned home to a very different world. He often shared disparaging stories about the misery he witnessed while serving in the Army.  The war left him changed and dealing with unresolved issues, which included the end of his relationship with Ethel.  Seeking a fresh start, Walter moved away from his three children, leaving a lasting gap. Settling in the DC area, he met Millie Plater and fathered his fourth child. This relationship ended as well, after an extended tenure.  This led him to later meet Susan Brown, whom he married in 1975, after a brief courtship.  Their union produced three children. Unfortunately, the relationship eventually ended in divorce.  However, they remained connected by their kids and grandkids.

In the early 2000’s, Walter was involved in a serious car accident that left him with physical limitations and unable to continue working. This caused such apprehension for him because he was accustomed to contributing in a viable monetary, manner.  His family rallied to ensure he would not have the worries of comfortable day-to-day living.  Over a period of time, he resided with various family members before moving on to independent living.  His days were spent eating sweets, smoking cigarettes, watching television and talking trash.  Two of his Grandchildren; Nasir and Taylor, spent many days and nights with their Pop Pop, catering to his daily needs.  He loved his children and grandchildren until the day he breathed his last breath.  He was always asking them what they needed or what they wanted. They loved him in return.

Walter fell ill and was transported to the hospital via ambulatory care.  Family members visited and offered bedside banter, filled with occasional laughter and pain.  Each person bid their own personal farewell, knowing it might be the last chance before transition.  After spending several laborious days on breathing machines and enduring the constant influx of doctors in his room, he surrendered his life.  Tears flowed and minds reflected who he was and what he meant to individual lives. Memories abound, some so personal and heartfelt and others not so good.  Either way, we all realize we have to make this journey. Life is short and grows shorter with each passing breath. Make each day count as though it is the last.

Walter, as we congregate to bid our final farewells, past any unsettled conflicts that no longer matter; we salute your life. Rest well.

Walter is preceded in departure by his Parents.  Sister: Corrine. Uncles: Morris, Charles, Rufus, William & Frank. Aunts: Alice, Rachel and Lillian. Family who remain to mourn the loss – Children: Wanda, Jamie, Derrick, Donald, Victory, Justin and Christian. Twenty-four Grandchildren, (8 named): Maurice, Taylor, Nasir, Naja, Teni, J’Khia, Nevaeh and Bobby, Jr. Siblings: John, Charlotte, Edward, Dorothy, Rosie and Margaret. Ex-Wife: Susan.  A host of Nieces, Nephews, GrandNieces/GrandNephews, In-laws, and further lineage.  Innumerable family and friends.